Not Sure What is Wrong With Me

[xtonytx]

I'm 28, my wife is 26. Problem is that I climax during intimate activities only when thinking about my wife with other men. This is new - 2 years ago I was very (overly) jelouse and would have been disgusted by the thought. Am I just bored with her? I know I'm 100% not gay. Where I used to DREAD the idea of her cheating now it excites me.

Can you provide some general info - atleast provide some terminology - when I try to look into this by searching the web I just get an endless list of porn sites. I know that if this goes farther it may really hurt our relationship.

[Dr. Adams]

This is a common fantasy, and it is also something upon which many couples act. You are correct that it can be based upon boredom, sexual attraction to the other male, or even the reassurance that other males find her attractive. With regard to the latter, it can be a way of re-triggering the jealousy upon which the relationship was once based. If it is at the point where it is impacting the marriage, it is time for one or both of you to schedule an appointment with someone.