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Questions
of the Week
January
Through March, 2000
January 3, 2000
Q "My
daughter will repeat, almost silently, to herself questions that she
asks. That is, she will ask a question and then re-state it in a
barely audible whisper. I have heard of echolalia in schizophrenic
children, but she seems very normal. It is frightening to think of
this as being the beginning of schizophrenia."
A You
have no information that would suggest that this is related to
schizophrenia. If you are concerned, or if there are other symptoms,
you may wish to seek a psychological consultation. However, Transient
Tic Disorder may occur many times per day, nearly every day for at
least four weeks but no longer than 12 consecutive months (at which
time they would be considered "chronic." A transient tic
disorder obviously may cause impairment in social and/or occupational
functioning and is not substance induced or the result of some disease
process (for example, Huntington's Disease). The onset, as with
chronic motor or vocal tic disorder, is before the age of eighteen,
and can involve single or multiple motor and/or vocal tics. These may
be rapid, recurrent, nonrhythmic movements or vocalizations.
January 10, 2000
Q "I
would imagine that you have been asked this a great deal recently, but
if a public figure says something that others consider inappropriate,
is this reason for a psychological examination?"
A You are
correct; this is a very popular question at present. Let me
counter your question with a broader question:
`Is it possible for someone to express
their opinion, for that opinion to be unpopular or even to some,
inappropriate, but for the person to be psychologically normal'?
The true purpose of a psychological
examination is to determine:
a. if there is care that an individual needs,
b. and/or in forensic (legal) situations to determine whether the
individual has voluntary control over reported illegal actions.
In the former U.S.S.R., such
examinations and even "care" was imposed upon political
dissidents. In the latter case, such imposed "treatment"
was, in fact, punishment.
Ill-timed, unpopular or even blatantly
offensive concepts or remarks do not necessarily mean that a disorder
is present. And such remarks do not serve as an index of the need for
psychological examination and care.
January 17, 2000
Q "My
family doctor told me that all behavior is biologically based and that
I was wasting both time and money in psychotherapy. I have felt that I
have made major changes in my behavior, emotions and thinking as a
result of psychotherapy. I do not wish to argue with him, but I do not
feel he is correct. Can you tell me your position on this?"
A This
has been, for years, referred to as the nature-nurture controversy. Do
we learn maladaptively to have the problems we have or are they the
result of the way we are biologically constructed. Most reasonable
individuals believe that we have biological predispositions to behave
in specific ways but that we can, and do, learn to modify those
impulses. It is increasingly believed that while there may well be a
biological basis for our behaviors, psychotherapy may also be a
biological treatment in that there may be significant biological
changes in our central nervous systems as a result of psychotherapy.
Thus, he may be correct as to the origin of problems and incorrect as
to their solution. Your best evidence should be whether psychotherapy
has made a demonstrable impact upon the quality of your life, your
relationships and your occupational functioning.
January 24, 2000
Q
My internist told me that she felt I was depressed. I told her that I
am sick, not depressed and I do not feel sad. I am tired a great deal
and have not the interest in things that once interested me...sleep
poorly and believe that a lot of this is due to my having gained quite
a bit of weight...my problem, I eat a lot of chocolate of late...Do
you believe that I could be depressed and not know it?"
A This is
a frequent and important question. Clinically depressed individuals
may have a range of physical complaints including fatigue and weight
change. They often report decrease sexual drive and decreased interest
in formerly pleasurable hobbies/activities. They may have difficulty
with attention and concentration and be irritable. It is not uncommon
to be depressed and not feel "sad." Regardless of what
precipitates depression, there are psychotherapeutic and pharmacologic
interventions that can be quite effective. Perhaps you should talk
more to your internist about her assessment and/or seek
psychodiagnostic consultation. You will find more on depression
elsewhere on psychological.com.
January 31, 2000
Q "About
three years ago I was injured at work. I hurt my lower back. I am only
34 years old, and I feel my life has permanently changed. I have not
gone back to work, I have less energy and less patience for my kids,
and I am distant from my wife. My wife says that she is prepared for
this, that she married me "forever", but I think this is
really getting to her. Does she need to see someone to deal with
this?"
A Your
situation is not at all unusual. Your limitations have affected not
only how you feel physically but how you relate to the family as well
as your perceptions of the future. You suggest that you are attempting
to deal with this with minimal discussion with your wife and without
psychological assistance. This may not be the best way to manage this
period of your life.
Your wife may, indeed, need to see a
psychologist in order to learn to accept how this has impacted you,
her and the children. You may also want to consider being seen
conjointly by a psychologist or as a family since it appears that
several areas of life are being impacted.
February 7, 2000
Q "My
sister has placed herself in a very bizarre situation. She creates
"relationships" in which she is mistreated and humiliated.
These all have a strong sexual aspect, and it is all rather
embarrassing. I think she has more than one problem. This is not my
field, but I believe she is dependent and frustrated, but the outward
behavior seems to run very close to risk to personal safety. What
would be at least one of the major concerns?"
A Sexual Masochism involves the
very real act of being humiliated, bound, beaten and otherwise made to
physically suffer for purposes of sexual stimulation. While the
fantasy of such things is not unusual, it is the acting upon these
fantasies that can run the risk of true peril.
These patterns of behavior are not only
disruptive to social and occupational functioning, but they run the
risk of threat to physical safety. Hypoxyphilia for example,
involves the cutting off of oxygen supply for purposes of sexual
stimulation. One to two deaths per million may be attributable to this
practice. While some may engage in minor sexual masochism, there are
those who increase the risk to safety over the years, often thereby
insuring that the risk of serious injury occurs.
February 14, 1999
Q "This
may seem like a naive question, but what is cross dressing. Are these
guys or girls who want to be the opposite of what they are?"
A Transvestic
Fetishism involves a male who maintains a collection of female
clothing that he intermittently utilizes for cross-dressing. This
occurs in heterosexual males and is not part of Gender Identity
Disorder. Some will wear a single item of apparel under masculine
clothing. These heterosexual males may have very few sexual partners
and have occasional homosexual relationships. When not cross-dressing,
they may behave in stereotypic male fashion but this behavior may be
quite feminine when wearing women's clothing. It may be a means of
reducing anxiety or depression, but in some cases, it can give rise to
gender dysphoria (discontent with one's own gender). Thus, the
motivation for cross dressing may change over time. Clinically
significant problems in social and occupational roles are most often
the result.
February 21, 2000
Q
"Many of my patients are
divorced and many have, or have had, sexual problems or conflicts. Do
you have any statistics of American marriages, sexual preference and
other demographics of the American family?"
A In
1997, there were 2.3 million marriages. Sixty percent of Americans
were married at that time, 23% had never married, 9% were divorced,
and 7% were widowed.
Fifteen percent of Americans are single
parents, 45% rely upon dual income and only 20% maintain the
traditional breadwinner/homemaker roles.
Fifty-three percent of couples have no
children. The average is 1.84 children per family. Sixty-eight percent
live with mom and dad; twenty-four percent live with their mother; 4%
live with their father.
Six percent of families have incomes
above $100k and sixteen percent have incomes below $10k.
Eleven percent of males had been
sterilized as compared to 28% of females. Seven percent of women are
homosexual, and thirteen percent of males.
Of the 1.3 million prostitutes in the
U.S., 500 thousand were under the age of 18, and 100 thousand of all
prostitutes had been arrested.
Thirty-eight percent of girls under
sixteen years of age were sexually active; 20% become pregnant.
February 28, 2000
Q
"A young man in our community was arrested for being a
"peeping Tom." In the newspaper, his defense was that this
was a serious psychological problem that needed treatment and not
something over which he had control. Is this a lame attempt at defense
for what he simply wants to do?"
A Voyeurism - the paraphilliac
focus of the voyeur is to observe unsuspecting individuals who are
naked, in the process of disrobing, or engaging in sexual activity.
The goal of the observing is to elicit sexual excitation in the
observer, not to seek sexual contact with those being observed. The
memories or the activity itself can be used by the voyeur to produce
sexual gratification. Onset is typically before the age of fifteen,
and the individual may become so invested in the voyeuristic activity
as to have this as the sole sexual behavior. This often is a chronic
condition.
March 5, 2000
Q I recently read about a boy
that due to a surgical error they tried to raise as a girl but he
refused. Even though he had no knowledge that he had been born a boy,
and even though being raised as a girl, he still felt he was a boy. He
said he was miserable as a girl. Does this have to do with sexual
identity?"
A Gender Identity
Disorder consists of a strong identification with the opposite gender.
The individual may insist that he/she is the other sex, cross-dressing
and/or stereotypic attire, preference for cross-sex roles, cross-sex
games and pastimes, and preference for playmates of the opposite sex.
There is a pervasive feeling that one's own sexual identity is
inappropriate and include disgust with one's genitals and/or rejection
of sexual roles. In adults it may include request for surgery,
hormonal treatment and other attempts at physical alteration.
March 12, 2000
Q
"One of my coworkers has been arrested and accused of raping a
woman at work. I feel that this could have been prevented because he
was very aggressive on dates, has been arrested before for harming his
sexual partners, and talked to males at work about punishing or
humiliating women. What is wrong with him?"
A
Sexual Sadism is diagnosed when
over a period of at least six months, the individual has intense and
recurrent, sexually arousing fantasies, urges and actions (not
simulated) in which psychological or physical suffering (including
humiliation) is suffered by another and is sexually exciting to the
perpetrator. Age of onset is commonly by early adulthood. The sadism
may take the form of restraining, beating, torturing, mutilating or
even killing another (especially when associated with anti-social
personality disorder). If committed with a non-consenting cohort, the
behavior may continue until the individual perpetrating the acts is
apprehended.
March 19, 2000
Q
"Is there a disorder that describes these people on subways who
deliberately bump or rub up against you? Surely, there is something
wrong with these people."
A
Frotteurism is the term used to
describe a sexual disorder in which individuals have recurrent intense
sexually arousing fantasies and urges involving the need and action of
touching or rubbing against nonconsenting persons. Most of these
individuals are males in their mid-to-late teens and twenties. They
chose public situations in which they can often then escape without
prosecution and/or even avoid detection by the victim. During the
action, they often fantasize of a relationship with the individual
whom they are touching.
March 26, 2000
Q
"I read recently that some
of the men and women who work as "dancers" in adult clubs
may suffer from a sexual disorder, but the article was vague. I think
they may have been referring to the individual's need to be watched or
looked at...can you explain this?."
A
Exhibitionism involves intense,
recurrent and sexually arousing fantasies involving the exposure of
the individual's genitals. This may, in turn, translate into putting
this fantasy into action and engaging in these behaviors. However, a
key feature of this need is that the individual be a stranger or
unsuspecting. It may not widely apply to individuals who expose
themselves for salary/tips and for whom their audience is anticipating
the behaviors.
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