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A
variety of organic (physical) and functional (psychological) sexual
disorders may arise following injury. The boundary between what is
physical and what is psychological becomes blurred.
Sexual
Dysfunctions are characterized by disturbance in sexual desire and the
physical changes that characterize the response cycle of sexual
excitation and sexual activity. They are dysfunctions when they case
personal distress and/or interpersonal (social) difficulties. They can
arise in the area of desire, excitement, orgasm, and/or resolution.
They can be of lifelong or acquired duration and can be generalized to
many situations or situational and occur only in specific situations.
They can be due to psychological factors or due to a combined physical
and psychological problem.
The
more common sexual dysfunctions include:
Hypoactive
Sexual Desire Disorder: is described as a deficiency or
absence of sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity. This is
considered a disorder if it causes distress for the patient or
problems in the patient's relationships. It must be determined that
this is not the result of another psychological disorder which is the
primary problem. If the sexual partner of a patient with suspected
hypoactive sexual desire disorder feels that this is a problem within
the relationship, that concern should be sufficient for the individual
to seek psychological consultation.
Sexual
Aversion Disorder: can be acquired or be of lifelong duration
and it can be generalized to most relationship or be situational and
occur only in some contexts. Some patients with this disorder will
have extreme feelings of anxiety and the associated physical
complaints of anxiety (panic, terror, nausea, shortness of breath,
palpitations, etc) in anticipation that they will be exposed to a
sexual situation. Occasional aversion is not considered a disorder but
when it interferes with interpersonal relationships or creates marked
emotional distress, it warrants professional attention. It results in
either aversion or avoidance of almost all sexual contact and must be
differentiated from other psychological conditions which may be the
primary cause and have gone undiagnosed. Some have an aversion toward
all sexual stimuli, even kissing and touching."
Female
Sexual Arousal Disorder like the other Sexual Desire
Disorders can be of recent onset or of lifelong duration. It also may
be associated with specific settings, situations and relationships or
generally present in all sexual settings. It may be due to
psychological factors or a combination of psychological and physical
factors. It is characterized by inability to attain or maintain
adequate physical response to sexual excitement. It is considered a
disorder when it causes distress or interpersonal conflict, and it
must be differentiated from other psychological problems for which it
may be simply a symptom rather than the primary problem.
Male
Erectile Disorder is the recurrent inability to achieve or
maintain an adequate erection until completion of sexual activity. It
is not considered male erectile disorder if it is merely an occasional
problem or if it does not create distress and interpersonal
difficulty. It can be due to psychological or a combination of
psychological and physical factors, and it can occur in most or just
some settings. For some, the onset occurs at a specific time in life
(acquired) as in response to a specific situation. For others, it may
be of lifelong duration. It is important to differentiate male
erectile disorder from mood disorders or anxiety disorders for which
this may merely be a symptom of a larger underlying problem. Complete
psychological and physical examinations may be indicated for many
patients. It should be noted that some research indicates that the
acquired type (vs. lifelong type) will spontaneously disappear in
15-30% of cases and may be dependent upon the type of sexual partner
and quality of the relationship.
Female
Orgasmic Disorder a disorder which can result from trauma but
can also be acquired through problems within relationships. There are
those for whom the problem is of lifelong duration. And for others the
problem may present in generalized (almost all) settings or be
specific to situational (specific kinds of) settings.
The
capacity for orgasm increases with age, and female orgasmic disorder
is more common in younger women. Many women increase orgasm capacity
as they acquire more knowledge of the responses of their own bodies.
The
problem has not been found associated with specific personality traits
or other psychopathology. Although we shall talk about this more
later, there are substance -induced (drug related) sexual dysfunctions
for which inhibited orgasm can be the result. Occasional orgasmic
problems, which are not persistent or do not result in distress or
interpersonal difficulty, are not considered a "disorder,"
nor are orgasmic problems which result from the poor or inadequate
nature of the sexual stimulation by a partner including "focus,
intensity and duration."
Male
Orgasmic Disorder - the delay or absence of orgasm following
what is typically a normal sexual excitation phase is not uncommon. As
with other sexual disorders, it can have an onset later in life or
have been in effect for the person's entire life, and it can manifest
in specific situations or in almost all situations. There are physical
causes and drug related causes which must be differentiated, and there
are psychological causes, the predominance of which is the anxiety
associated with once again experiencing the frustrating outcome.
For
some males, it is not the absence of the orgasm but what stimulation
is required before it can occur. For some males, it can occur with
stimulation but not with intercourse. If this occasionally occurs, it
is not considered a disorder. For example, alcohol for some males will
create the problem situationally. It is when it causes emotional
distress and interpersonal problems that it is considered a disorder.
For older males, the problem may simply be the normal longer period
required with age which the person misinterprets as a problem rather
than part of the aging process.
It
is important to seek a complete psychological and physical evaluation
since there are a number of causes that may have this as a symptom and
not be the core cause of the problem. Most communities have
specialists in the area of sexual dysfunction and/or have university
programs that deal with the problem.
Premature
Ejaculation - Arguably, for men, the most frustrating of the
sexual disorders is that of premature ejaculation. It is the
persistent or recurrent experience of ejaculation with minimal sexual
stimulation before, or, or shortly after penetration. It occurs before
the man wants it to occur. Sometimes, it is misperceived by the male
as occurring "too soon" when, in reality, it is occurring
within what is considered an average length of time. The man,
therefore, may have inadequate information from others as to what
constitutes "premature" and may have had punitive or
ridiculing experiences. Also, the occasional occurrence of an early
ejaculation does not constitute a disorder. The disorder may have an
onset later in life or have been in effect for the person's entire
life, and it can manifest in specific situations or in almost all
situations. There are physical causes which should be considered, but
the vast majority of such situations arise from psychological
experiences and become associated with fear that it will simply happen
again. The patient should consider discussing this with someone who
can refer him to a psychologist who diagnoses and treats this
disorder. It is encouraging that this is typically an easily treated
problem with very positive outcome.
Dyspareunia
& Vaginismus - There are two problems, one is called
dyspareunia. It involves pain in the genitals associated with sexual
intercourse. It can also occur before or after intercourse and can
occur in males and females. There may be an experience of mild
discomfort or actual sharp pain. The result may be avoidance of
intercourse or substitution of other forms of sexual activity in order
to avoid intercourse. This problem is not caused by lack of
lubrication and should be differentiated from similar symptoms arising
due to an organic (physical) problem.
The
other problem is called Vaginismus in which there is
involuntary contraction of the perineal muscles which makes
penetration uncomfortable, difficult and at times, impossible. Again,
this can be due to a medical condition which should be considered.
In
both cases, we are talking about functional (psychologically) caused
problems with sexual penetration whether due to discomfort during,
preceding or following sexual activity or involuntary muscle
contraction which inhibits or complicates sexual intercourse.
There
are also sexual dysfunctions due to general medical conditions: can be
a change in desire, erection or pain/discomfort. Some people with
diabetes may report sexual problems. Some people on antihypertensive
medication for their blood pressure and even some antidepressants may
cause sexual problems. Also, there are numerous problems which can
arise from use/abuse of the so-called "recreational" or
"street" drugs. Interestingly, and importantly, these
problems are not consistent. Even the drug Propecia for hair loss
creates sexual problems in some users.
When
the decision is made to consult someone about any sexual complaint, be
certain to organize not only your past sexual experiences/problems but
also information you have about health, medications, other symptoms
concurrently experienced and what, if any, nonprescribed drugs you are
taking.
Usually
the problems arising from substance use are subdivided into those
which cause impaired desire, impaired arousal, impaired orgasm or
sexual pain. Again, the important aspect is to report a complete
history to anyone consulted for a problem.
There
are paraphilias: recurrent, sexually arousing fantasies, urges and
behaviors that may involve nonhuman objects, suffering or humiliation
of self or sexual partner, children or other nonconsenting
individuals. For some, sexual activity is not possible without these
fantasies and/or behaviors and for some they are transient, and at
times the individual is able to sexually function without these
fantasies or stimulation.
Examples
are problems such as exhibitionism in which the individual feel they
must expose their genitals to others; fetishism is which non sexual
objects (such as items of clothing) are needed for sexual stimulation;
frotteurism which involves touching or rubbing against a nonconsenting
individual; pedophilia involving sexual urges and actions against a
child (often defined as those under 13 years of age); sexual masochism
in which the need is to be beaten, humiliated, bound or otherwise made
to suffer; sexual sadism in which the physical suffering of another
individual is perceived as sexually arousing; transvestic fetishism in
which a heterosexual male experiences intense needs for cross dressing
and voyeurism in which the goal is to observe an unaware individual
disrobing or engaging in sexual activity. The large commercial market
in materials pandering to these needs/disorders suggests that their
prevalence may be quite high, and these problems appear to begin in
childhood. Often the criteria of "six months" is used in
which the problem is considered a disorder if the drive lasts for more
than six months and is not, therefore, merely the result of some
transient (passing) stressor. The problems, very often can transgress
legal boundaries, and most often create impairment in social and
occupational functioning.
And
there are gender identity disorders: occurs when a child,
adolescent or adult has a strong and persistent cross-gender
identification in which the person may insist that they desire or
actually are the other sex . The may chose to dress and behave as if
this fantasy is their reality. These individuals may seek to live
within the role of the opposite sex, engages in the activities
traditionally associated with the opposite sex, and peer group
identification with members of the opposite sex. The person may insist
at times that they are the opposite sex and that their thoughts,
feelings, beliefs and attitudes demonstrate that their true gender is
the opposite sex. This is accompanied by a desire to rid themselves of
the characteristics of their biological sex and to alter their sexual
presentation. This is not the same as preferring the advantages that
you perceive are held by the other sex and envying their comparative
benefits.
Sexual
problems commonly complicate the physical recovery process. The
patient, preoccupied with pain and fear, fails to respond to what
should be effective medical care. The patient also fails to tell those
involved in his/her care that sexual problems have arisen.
An
unwillingness to discuss sexual dysfunction is almost universal, with
each individual fearing that they are unique in their problem. Men are
likely to acknowledge a problem indirectly, identifying their
relationship as unsatisfactory rather than revealing the more
frightening issue, for example, of erectile failure.
The marital conflicts which subsequently arise due the combination of
sexual dysfunction and marital tension further complicate resolution
of the symptoms arising from injury.
Clinical
data suggest that women are likely to report pain during intercourse
as well as generally diminished sexual interest arising after injury.
While this change in sexual capacity may not be alarming to the
patient, her underlying fears of abandonment or infidelity by a
frustrated spouse can be inordinately frightening.
Fear
of abandonment, importantly, is common among both men and women, and
impacts symptom magnification for many patients. Unable to maintain
the healthy interest of their spouse, physical symptoms may become the
"glue" that the patient uses to maintain the relationship.
The
healthy mate learns to assume a caretaker role, for "How can I
leave him/her when they are in this much pain?" And indeed , it
is difficult for a mate to justify leaving an ill spouse, even if the
relationship was unstable prior to illness or injury. Patients may,
consciously or unconsciously, utilize their physical symptoms to mask
sexual problems, and to concurrently insure that the mate remains
invested in their recovery.
Injured
individuals frequently gain weight due to inactivity and increased
food intake. This increased eating is not solely based upon the side
effects of medication or boredom; food can become an alternate form of
gratification in the absence of sexual activity. Obviously, obesity
can then, in turn, become a complication to the sexual relationship
due to potentially decreased physical appeal.
Interestingly,
patients with a general dislike of sexual activity (hypoactive desire
or aversion), at least with their current partner, can effectively use
an injury to justify avoidance of sexual contact.
Sexual
dysfunction can amplify the patient’s perceptions of the severity of
their condition. Thus, while the physical condition may not be
disabling, the psychological impact of the associated sexual
dysfunction can erode the patient’s perceptions of functional
capacity. The sexual disorder, because of its importance, becomes the
single factor by which a patient measures the degree of their
disability or recovery.
Men
appear to have more difficulty acknowledging that a sexual disorder
has occurred, and more difficulty accepting that there may be a
psychological component to the disorder. The consequent delay in
seeking care allows the symptoms to become entrenched and resistant to
change.
When
sexual dysfunction is suspected, evaluation should occur without
delay. Targeted and appropriate care will shorten the recovery
process, increase the patient’s positive assessment of their
recovery, and aid in the goal of restoration of the pre-injury
lifestyle.
Sexual Masochism involves the
very real act of being humiliated, bound, beaten and otherwise made to
physically suffer for purposes of sexual stimulation. While the
fantasy of such things is not unusual, it is the acting upon these
fantasies that can run the risk of true peril.
These patterns of behavior are not only
disruptive to social and occupational functioning, but they run the
risk of threat to physical safety. Hypoxyphilia for example,
involves the cutting off of oxygen supply for purposes of sexual
stimulation. One to two deaths per million may be attributable to this
practice. While some may engage in minor sexual masochism, there are
those who increase the risk to safety over the years, often thereby
insuring that the risk of serious injury occurs.
Sexual Sadism is diagnosed when
over a period of at least six months, the individual has intense and
recurrent, sexually arousing fantasies, urges and actions (not
simulated) in which psychological or physical suffering (including
humiliation) is suffered by another and is sexually exciting to the
perpetrator. Age of onset is commonly by early adulthood. The sadism
may take the form of restraining, beating, torturing, mutilating or
even killing another (especially when associated with anti-social
personality disorder). If committed with a non-consenting cohort, the
behavior may continue until the individual perpetrating the acts is
apprehended.
Transvestic Fetishism involves a
male who maintains a collection of female clothing that he
intermittently utilizes for cross-dressing. This occurs in
heterosexual males and is not part of Gender Identity Disorder. Some
will wear a single item of apparel under masculine clothing. These
heterosexual males may have very few sexual partners and have
occasional homosexual relationships. When not cross-dressing, they may
behave in stereotypic male fashion but this behavior may be quite
feminine when wearing women's clothing. It may be a means of reducing
anxiety or depression, but in some cases, it can give rise to gender
dysphoria (discontent with one's own gender). Thus, the motivation for
cross dressing may change over time. Clinically significant problems
in social and occupational roles are most often the result.
Voyeurism - the paraphilliac
focus of the voyeur is to observe unsuspecting individuals who are
naked, in the process of disrobing, or engaging in sexual activity.
The goal of the observing is to elicit sexual excitation in the
observer, not to seek sexual contact with those being observed. The
memories or the activity itself can be used by the voyeur to produce
sexual gratification. Onset is typically before the age of fifteen,
and the individual may become so invested in the voyeuristic activity
as to have this as the sole sexual behavior. This often is a chronic
condition.
Gender Identity Disorder
consists of a strong identification with the opposite gender. The
individual may insist that he/she is the other sex, cross-dressing
and/or stereotypic attire, preference for cross-sex roles, cross-sex
games and pastimes, and preference for playmates of the opposite sex.
There is a pervasive feeling that one's own sexual identity is
inappropriate and include disgust with one's genitals and/or rejection
of sexual roles. In adults it may include request for surgery,
hormonal treatment and other attempts at physical alteration.
Frotteurism
is the term used to describe a sexual disorder in which individuals
have recurrent intense sexually arousing fantasies and urges involving
the need and action of touching or rubbing against nonconsenting
persons. Most of these individuals are males in their mid-to-late
teens and twenties. They chose public situations in which they can
often then escape without prosecution and/or even avoid detection by
the victim. During the action, they often fantasize of a relationship
with the individual whom they are touching.
Exhibitionism
involves intense, recurrent and sexually arousing fantasies involving
the exposure of the individual's genitals. This may, in turn,
translate into putting this fantasy into action and engaging in these
behaviors. However, a key feature of this need is that the individual
be a stranger or unsuspecting. It may not widely apply to individuals
who expose themselves for salary/tips and for whom their audience is
anticipating the behaviors.
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